I believe one of the main issues facing today's youth is homophobic behavior in schools and communities all over England. Schools label themselves as a safe place for students, no matter what their social background, race or sexuality, but that is rarely the case. 40% of the youth have been bullied at some point this year.
Homophobia is defined as: negative attitudes towards homosexual people and homosexuality which may be manifested in discrimination, hostile behavior or hate crimes. However, it’s not only direct homophobia that is the issue. Offhand comments meant as a joke, can be just as harmful as direct homophobia. One small, silly comment can have a massive impact on someone around you, either an outwardly gay individual or someone who is closeted. For someone closeted to then hear a horrible joke about the gay community, it can lead to even more pressure and fear to come out to their friends and family, Unfortunately, it is usual in schools around the UK to hear horrible jokes about the LGBTQ+ community regularly.
People who make these comments don’t think any more of it than a silly joke to get a laugh out of one of their friends, which is a big part of the problem because a homophobia isn't a small joke, it’s a massive issue which can cause people to feel isolated and diffident. People need to realize how to be kind and show sympathy towards others. Refraining from making inappropriate jokes about the gay community is the bare minimum and represents basic human empathy; it should be expected of everyone.
By law, discrimination because of sexual orientation is illegal! The equality act of 2010 protects the LGBTQ+ community from being discriminated against. This shows what a big deal homophobia is and the need for it to be discouraged in the youth.
Schools need to enforce more rules concerning bullying and encourage students to spread kindness and inclusivity. But more importantly, students need to put in the effort to be inclusive and accept everybody for who they are. Homophobic youths need to realize that someone else's sexuality does not concern them and it never will.
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